Why Do Submissive Men Like To Date BBW Femdom For Femdom Relationships?

Femdom relationships is clearly quite an interesting topic which piques the interest of many out there – which is why we have chosen it!

And it is derived out of a common observation we have made time and time again; a lot of submissive men out there are all too keen to date big beautiful Femdom with whom they can easily go ahead and enjoy a Femdom relationship.

To understand this pattern of behavior, it is essential to look at the BDSM lifestyle. As much as a lot of us would like to believe that there is a very small proportion of people out there who are into this lifestyle, reality suggests otherwise; there are in fact many out there who genuinely enjoy BDSM and all that it brings along.

Now, when we look at BDSM, among the many fundamental principles which men (especially) enjoy is BBW or a 'Big Beautiful Woman'.

See, the thing to understand here is the 'Domination' aspect of BDSM. Herein, men genuinely want to be dominated by their female partners. Psychologically, when we look at things, it is apparent that a petite, small-made woman would not really personify the image of someone who can be in a dominant position.

That is the reason, BBW women are highly preferred.

Features of BBW Femdom Women

BBW Femdom women really know what turns men on. This is especially true in case of their regular clientele or partners (those who take on the role of Femdom only at a personal level).

That said it would really be very useful to look at the broad set of features that define BBW Femdom women.

Physically Well Endowed

A particularly common characteristic of BBW Femdom women is the fact that they are physically very well endowed. Be it their height, weight, breast size, hands, and feet, generally, they would all easily be defined as large.

Now, this is, of course, a relatively subjective point of view. Some women may come across as “regular” to many while others would be considered as “large” or “big” by most. Typically, when we look at women who play the role of saying a “Dominatrix” at a professional level, it is almost a given that they would fulfill the typical perception of being considered as “large” by one and all.

A lot depends on the man and his preferences too. For example, when we look at couples who role-play BDSM among themselves, the woman in the relationship would be the one taking on the Femdom role, irrespective of whether she truly fulfills the usual criteria of being a BBW.

Dominant Nature

The physical traits are really just one side of the story. If we take a holistic perspective, we find that beyond physical endowments, it is really nature, the behavior that truly defines Femdom women.

For instance, “domination” is at the very core of BDSM roles and Femdom role play. Irrespective of whether she is actually physically very well endowed or not, she has to have nature that is dominating.

Now, this kind of nature is either ingrained – perhaps as a result of upbringing or incidents that happened over the course of the woman's life, or it is learned. The latter usually happens when BDSM and Femdom is something which is imbibed into the life of the woman at a later stage.

This dominant nature is, at the end of the day, absolutely vital to Femdom. Notwithstanding the possibility of modest physical endowments, dominance would be quintessential.

Pliable, Flexible Personality

Yet another feature of these big Femdom women which is extremely important – especially among those indulging in this lifestyle at a personal level is to be flexible. Remember that when we consider what “ticks the buttons” of male patrons, it varies considerably.

A Femdom woman who is rigid in the way she dominates is unlikely to hold her ground in her role, in the long term.

Instead, a big boob Femdom who has the vision to realize that not all men are turned on the same way or at the same level by the same acts, whereby they clearly need to be flexible on this front, are the ones who succeed the most in the long-term.

Among the many traits that we consider under this particular aspect is that of understanding. For instance, while some men may truly enjoy physical pain being inflicted on them, others could possibly be seeking out compassion and understanding. Therefore, the ability to understand and be pliable as per the situation at hand definitely goes a long way as far as sustaining a successful long term Femdom relationship is concerned.

Benefits of Dating BBW Femdom Women

Dating a BBW Femdom woman clearly comes with distinct advantages and benefits. In this section, we enlist some of them.

There's always so much to love!

OK, we might be saying this in jest but when we consider the fact that the woman in question is physically large and well-endowed, there's clearly a LOT of her to love!

For many men, especially submissive men, this is a huge turn on by itself. Moreover, you will notice that a lot of these men would themselves be relatively small-made. So the fact that they have a woman, who is in all likelihood significantly larger than them, proves to be quite a turn on.

Now, being turned on to such a great extent, in turn, has its own advantages; men themselves are happy and content in such relationships, thus ensuring the kind of fidelity which is often sought but not always found in relationships of this nature.

Spicy Relationships

Having brought up the aspect of fidelity towards the end of the previous point, it would only be appropriate to mention the manner in which things tend to remain spiced up in every such Femdom relationship between a Femdom woman and submissive men.

For instance, there are multiple kinds of role-playing that are tried out. Then there are so many different positions that these couples like to try among them. Further, even within the very act of BDSM or Femdom, dating couples of this ilk can easily try out so many new things and keep things as spiced up, as full of variety, as can possibly be.

Multi-Faceted Personalities

There's often this notion that when it comes to BBW Femdom, their life is dominated by BDSM and its likes exclusively. Such a notion is in fact very far from the truth. As you will increasingly discover, there is always a lot to such people, especially those who live this life on a personal level.

Beyond the Femdom relationship instances which they have, these same individuals lead very normal lives otherwise. They could be teachers, they could be lawyers, they could be college students, heck they could even be the comely stay at home mom next door!

Therefore the men in these relationships – even if they happen to be submissive men, actually get to enjoy the company of everyday women and lead what can easily be considered a very normal, typical life.

This leads to all-round harmony, which is definitely a big plus since on one hand there is a rather unique Femdom relationship and at the same time, there is a typical relationship as seen between couples.

How to Attract Femdom Woman on Femdom Sites

Now, there are many submissive men out there actively seeking out BBW Femdom on Femdom sites so that they can go ahead and enjoy a Femdom relationship together.

For this, these men clearly need to attract the attention of these gorgeous BBW.

The tips below will help with that.

Complete Profile

As basic as it may seem, many men have a rather basic profile on Femdom sites which does not tell anything to the femdom wmen; don't do that!

Sure, you may not want to reveal your personal details, perhaps the least possible information about your everyday life. Yet, you do need to provide relevant information that will actually attract the attention of BBW Femdom.

So make sure to use catchy text, which is actually attention-grabbing.

Attractive Pictures

As we have always stressed, this does not imply nudity. Yet, it does imply pictures that are appealing and are likely to strike a chord with Femdom BBW.

Be Active

Many men sign up on Femdom sites and assume that BBW women will simply flock to them. That is really not how things work. You have to put in adequate effort to make things happen. This includes logging in regularly, checking out profiles that you like, sending them requests, chatting up those who have already accepted you, and so on.

Only when you do the above will you really be able to take things to the next level!

Ultimately, it is really the irresistibly attractive disposition and personalities of femdom BBW which keep drawing submissive men to them by the droves, hoping to build up a strong and intimate Femdom relationship.