Safety Tips For Black Femdom Women Seeking Ebony Femdom Dating On Fetish Sites

Black femdom is a very popular kink. Ebony femdoms can provide a very entertaining experience and there are plenty of subs out there for them to play with. Unfortunately, even dominant women need to take steps to protect themselves when using fetish dating sites. Today we are going to look at some of the safety tips that you can use to help enjoy your femdom experience.

Be Careful What Information You Give Out

Watch what information you give out when talking with submissives online. Do not give out your full name until you have gotten together at least once. Your address should not be given out until then either.

Even your phone number is something that you want to protect. Do not give your phone number out until you are ready to hookup with the person.

Do not give out any financial information or information that does not have any relevance to the hookup. Fake accounts on dating sites will ask for financial information or money and then leave you with nothing.

Use Unique Pictures

A variety of internet tools allow you to search the internet with a sample photo. If you use a photo for your dating profile on fetish dating sites that are on your social media, people can find your social media using it. Pick a photo that isn't used anywhere else on the internet.

You don't want people to figure out information about you without you telling them. Plenty of dating site users will try to use Google and other resources to learn something about dates.

Research Potential Dates

Your date isn't the only one who can spend a little time doing research. Use the internet to help you look up a potential date to see if you can find any red flags. If you have their name, search for that. You can also Google Reverse Image Search their profile photos. Lastly, many people reuse usernames and you can search those on Google to find their other accounts.

There is a very fine line between stalking and ensuring your safety. When you research potential dates you are looking for red flags such as their names appearing on police reports or news articles. You are not looking to learn everything about them. Only look for safety related information.

Read Every Profile Thoroughly

Before starting to talk with another user on fetish dating sites, it is important to read a person's profile. Typically some of the first red flags you find from a dating site user are found in their profile. Beyond saying something obvious, people who have a lot of spelling and grammar errors in their profile are often scammers.

Spend Time Developing Trust

Trust is key in a femodom relationship. Even for the Femdom. You need to be able to trust each other. After hooking up with the person they will know who you are and you need to know that your privacy is good.

The sub also needs to be able to trust that you are going to follow their rules and treat them well. You will have them in a vulnerable position.

A good way to develop trust is to have a video chat before meeting up. A lot of people do not feel comfortable doing anything sexual on video and that is completely fine. You can use the video chat to simply talk and put each other's nerves at ease. You can also discuss the next bullet point there!

Know and Discuss Limits

Part of being safe is knowing your own limits. From time to time new activities will happen and it is perfectly okay to learn new limits. That being said, you should know most of your limits. This might mean taking time and exploring what you are interested in and what you are willing to do.

It is hard to set your limits with a new partner if you do not yet know what your limits are. If you do not know them, make sure to talk to your partner about your comfort level regarding specific activities.

After you have spent a moment thinking about your limits, it is important to discuss them with any potential submissives. While a submissive is not the main person to control a relationship, they do have a fair amount of control over scenes and you want to make sure you are safe and respected.

Set a Safeword

Safewords are great for any relationship but are especially important for Dom/sub relationships such as black femdom ones. A safeword is a word or phrase that means stop. Set a safeword before you engage in any sexual activity. Make sure it is a word or phrase that would not come up naturally in your scenes.

A safeword always means stop and should be respected just the same way stop would. If you want to set up a second word, you can create a slow down word which means to slow down or move onto another activity.

Meet in a Public Location First, Always

The first time that you meet with a submissive from a fetish dating site needs to happen in a public place. You do not have to stay there for long but it is important for safety. A public place lets you see the person, speak with them for a moment, and further establish trust.

When it comes to picking a location, it depends on you, your area, and your comfort level. One of the best places to meet is a cafe. A cafe is staffed and there are other people there. For those that want somewhere that has a bit more space, you can meet in a park. When choosing a park though, it is important you find one that has plenty of people and that you will never be somewhere someone can't see you.

Let A Friend Know Where You Are

One of the best defenses you have when it comes to protecting your safety and dating, is your friends. Let a friend or two know where you are going and how long you will be there. Then, if you don't message them by a certain time, they will know to check on you or get help.

You can also use your friends as an easy way to get out of a situation that isn't comfortable. Have a message you can text them that lets them know to call you.

Simply Stop if Something Tells You To

If you discover a red flag or if something in your mind says to be wary, simply stop talking with a potential match. There are plenty of submissives out there that you can play with and stopping talking with one submissive will not be the end of the world.

Our bodies have a sense if there is something is wrong. Even if you can't put your finger on what is wrong, you should listen to that. That feeling has helped to save plenty of people around the world.

The block and report features are present on dating sites to help protect you. When you encounter a fake user or a user that makes you feel uncomfortable, use the block feature and then report them.

If you only block a user without reporting them, they will go on and be able to do the same thing to other users. Protect yourself and other users and you will play a part in making the fetish community safer.

Being a femdom is great, it gives you power and lets you embrace yourself. At the same time you still need to take steps to ensure your safety. The tips we have given you above will help to keep you safe. Let everyone know in the comments if you have another safety tip.