What Should a Femdom Finder Do to Attract A Real Dominant Woman?

Femdom stands for female dominance and is the term for a dominant woman in bed. Men and women who enjoy being dominated by a femdom are referred to as a femdom finder. If you are a femdom finder looking to attract a real femdom, there are steps that you can take to help you stand out amongst the pack. We are going to take a look at some things you can do on femdom dating sites to help yourself stand out.

Craft A Catchy Femdom Profile

Just like any other dating site you will need to craft a profile for yourself. The profile on a femdom dating site will need to catch a dominant woman's eyes so you will need to take time and think about what you put in the profile. Here are some general tips about your femdom finder profile.

We recommend that you leave almost all discussion of sexual activities out of your femdom finder profile. You don't want to come off as someone who is only interested in sex. Anyways, only a part of femdom is about the sex, part of it is about the thrill, and another is about allowing someone else to take control. What you can put in your profile when it comes to femdom is a brief list of things that you like, what you are looking for, and your level of experience. These are all things that a potential femdom is going to want to know.

The main focus of your profile should be to describe yourself. Make yourself sound like a fun-loving person. Even if you aren't going to be in a traditional relationship, a potential dominant woman match will still want you to be an upbeat person that they can enjoy their time with.

Make sure to take the extra time to fill out any profile questions the website might have. The more you can do to make your profile attractive to a potential dominant woman match is a good idea. A complete profile is among the things that will be expected.

Profile Photos On Femdom Dating Sites

Having a profile picture on any dating site is a must. On a traditional dating site, this means having a face picture. Femdom sites can be a bit different.

A profile picture featuring your face is typically optional on a femdom dating site. Other users understand that you want to maintain an atmosphere of privacy that is difficult with having a face on your profile. With that in mind, keep in mind that having a face picture will establish more trust with other users. It will also show that you are confident enough to have a face picture on your profile, something that can be attractive.

When picking a photo that doesn't include your face for a dating site there is still some picking and choosing what needs to be done. One of the things to consider is whether or not you have any birthmarks, do you want those to show? Should you showcase a regular photo of yourself first or have a BDSM related photo first? Many of these things are a personal choice. Just know that if you include a photo with any kind of sexualization, it is also a good idea to include a vanilla photo. Whatever you do though, don't post a dick pic.

No matter what, whether you choose to have a body picture or a face picture (or both), it is important that you have some pictures of yourself. Without that picture, there will be a lack of trust in your profile. You will notice very few responses to the messages you send.

Craft Femdom Messages

When it comes to sending messages on a dating site, there is an art to it. You are looking to craft a message that catches the other user's attention and shows that you put some effort into the said message. There are several important things that we can pass on when it comes to crafting messages on femdom dating sites.

The most important thing is to leave the sexual messages until the second or third message at least. It is better to let the femdom bring it up instead of you bringing it up. The only exception to this is if you have a sexual joke that it is appropriate for audiences of all genders.

One way to make your message stand out amongst other user's messages is to read through the other person's profile first. Look at their desires, what they are looking for, and about them in general. Use what you have learned from their profile to craft a message that shows that you actually read their profile.

Another thing you want to do with your first message is to capture their interest. You don't want to have an information dump, but you want to say something that makes them want to learn more. Do you have a unique interest in common? Do you have a talent that is unusual and impressive? Start with something like that. Most importantly, don't have a message that is paragraphs long or that is only a few words short, you want to find the perfect middle ground.

Don't Limit Yourself to the Profile Finder

One thing that you should know about femdom dating sites is that rarely are they only about the profile finder, aka searching for potential matches like a traditional dating site. A good portion of these sites has a section for finding other users in the form of personals. Browse the personals section regularly to see if there is anything that tickles your fancy.

If you are comfortable with it, we highly recommend that you post your own personal on the personals section. This will allow dominant women to find you too. Unlike traditional dating sites, femdom dating sites have women doing as much searching as men. In your personal, you will want to mention what you are looking for, what you like, the experience you have, along with a brief overview of your stats (height,, weight, age, hair color, etc).

The other portion of a femdom dating website that you should explore deserves its own section, so make sure to read the next tip.

Be Active

Many femdom dating sites (and other dating sites for that matter) have communities in the form of forums or chatrooms. Make sure that you become active in areas of dating sites like this. You will get your name out there and also get experience talking with dominant women, something that any femdom finder should be interested in.

Getting your name out there will help you to find potential matches but also help introduce people to yourself as a femdom finder. If someone sees a message from you on the dating site and remembers you from the community they will already know you a little and there will be a sense of trust established too.

Take a look at these femdom finder tips you will start finding more matches on dating sites quickly. Each one of these tips has been hand-selected from advice that actually works on these sites. Make sure to start using as many of them as possible to maximize the benefits you receive.